How often do we pause to think about the difference between “I have to” and “I get to”? It’s such a subtle shift in language, but it reveals a profound truth about our perspective on life, purpose, and the opportunities God gives us.
So many times, we approach life as if everything depends on our own strength and effort, as if we’re solely responsible for making things happen. But the truth is, we get to do what we do because of God’s grace. He, in His infinite kindness, gives us opportunities to step into purpose and to be His hands and feet in the Earth. This isn’t because of anything we’ve done to earn it; it’s a gift that comes from Him.
The Power of “I Get To”
The phrase “I get to” embodies a mindset shift that’s at the core of renewing our minds as believers. Romans 12:2 reminds us to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind,” and part of that transformation is moving from a sense of obligation to one of gratitude. Instead of saying, “I have to work on this project,” we say, “I get to work on this project.” Instead of, “I have to show up for this responsibility,” we say, “I get to show up because God has given me the ability and the space to do so.”
This isn’t about minimizing hard work or effort; it’s about acknowledging the Source of our strength and recognizing that every opportunity to act, create, lead, serve, or love comes from God. It’s not of our own doing—it’s His grace at work in us.
Opportunities Are a Gift
When we begin to see opportunities as gifts from God, it changes how we approach them. We stop taking them for granted. We stop viewing them as burdens. Instead, we honor them. We show up with intentionality, with reverence, and with gratitude.
Think about it: God didn’t have to include us in His plans. He didn’t have to give us the chance to impact others, to create change, or to live out the unique purpose He’s designed for us. But He did. He chose us. And with that choice, He equipped us with the grace we need to carry it out.
Walking in Purpose
Walking in purpose isn’t just about doing the work—it’s about understanding the why behind it. It’s about realizing that God has entrusted us with these opportunities so that we can reflect His love, His power, and His kingdom here on Earth.
When we approach our purpose with an “I get to” mindset, we step into a deeper sense of stewardship. We treat our roles, responsibilities, and opportunities with respect. We show up with excellence, not because we’re trying to earn something, but because we’re grateful for the privilege to be part of God’s work.
What Do You Get to Do?
So, let me ask you: what is it that you get to do? What has God entrusted to you in this season? Maybe you’re raising children, leading a team, serving in ministry, building a business, or simply being a source of encouragement to someone who needs it. Whatever it is, remember that you don’t have to—you get to.
Take a moment to reflect on the opportunities in front of you. How can you honor them? How can you shift your perspective to see them as gifts of grace rather than obligations?
I encourage you to adopt the mindset of gratitude that comes with an “I get to” attitude. Write it down. Speak it aloud. And as you do, watch how your heart changes. You’ll begin to show up differently—with joy, with purpose, and with a renewed sense of wonder at the God who gave you these opportunities.
Share Your “I Get To”
I’d love to hear from you—what do you get to do? Drop your “I get to” in the comments or share it with someone who needs this reminder. Let’s celebrate the grace and space God has given us to walk in purpose and to be His hands and feet in the world.
Remember, it’s not about us—it’s about Him. And because of Him, we get to.
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Yes!!!! Such an amazing opportunity!